However, if you feel obligated or pressured, it may be time to change the dynamic or the relationship. Open communication and a willingness to meet in the middle are vital skills for any relationship, especially a romantic connection, to thrive. Also, \u201cthrowing money\u201d at your partner is never going to be able to substitute meeting the rest of her needs, such as being emotionally present. It also shouldn\u2019t be used as a crutch for dealing with unresolved issues or conflicts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
7 Ways to Show Women That You Care <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now that we have tackled the number one misconception of what supporting a woman means, it\u2019s time to delve into how you can express your adoration for her. Here are seven underrated ways in which you can treasure the amazing women in your life: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do Half of the Chores <\/p>\n\n\n\n
While the mindset has been shifting regarding traditional gender roles, women still tend to find themselves handling most of the household chores<\/a>. Chores can be time-consuming, and they can also add to the mental load<\/a> of your partner. Keep in mind that, these days, women are expected to contribute half of the expenses, as is fair when striving for true gender equality. However, they also tend to shoulder the bulk of the chores. And if there\u2019s a child in the mix, they\u2019re also expected to take the lead there because <\/a>they\u2019re the \u201cmother.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n All this can end up draining the women around you (which may make them crankier too). So, as an adult, do your half of the chores. It doesn\u2019t have to be an exact split, which means you don\u2019t necessarily need to do the dishes half the time. But you need to do your part. So, if you\u2019re good at cooking, you can take on that responsibility. If she loves cleaning the house, she can take on that role. Again, communicate. Find the delegation that works for both of you and approach chores as a team. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Split Parenting Duties <\/p>\n\n\n\n We already touched on how women are expected to be the primary caretakers<\/a> for the kids. But again, it should be a team effort. Both of you played an equal part in creating the beautiful lives you are now responsible for. This means that both of you are equally responsible. If your baby is bottle-fed, for example, make sure that you are also helping with that. Of course, you can\u2019t really delegate things like breastfeeding. In which case, find something that you can do to help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t wait for your wife or partner to tell you exactly how you should parent your child. Proactively read bedtime stories or play with your children. If anything, don\u2019t even measure how much you\u2019re doing. Just do whatever you can. Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should go overboard to the point of ignoring your own well-being. Parenting burnout<\/a> can be tough to navigate. Strive for balance. Show up as best as you can, both for your family and for yourself. Remember, you matter too, and you can give more if you yourself are \u201cfull tank.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Provide Emotional Support <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is another essential skill to have, regardless of what type of relationship you have with a woman (or anyone, really). Humans are social creatures<\/a>, which means that we co-regulate<\/a> and thrive when we can healthily share our emotions. But if you haven\u2019t learned to work with your own emotions, it can be hard to fully participate emotionally with others. This can take a huge toll on your relationship. Emotional unavailability<\/a> is one of the causes of breakups among couples. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It also isn\u2019t fair for only one person to handle the emotional load of the relationship. And again, it\u2019s give and take. This means that while you should emotionally support your woman, she should do the same in return. That\u2019s the essence of a relationship; being there for each other. Emotionally supporting your partner can be as simple as listening to her when she wants to talk about how she feels or giving her genuine compliments. Note that, when people open up, they are usually not seeking advice. To know for sure, ask your partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Help Without Being Asked <\/p>\n\n\n\n Being proactive is not only critical in terms of things like your career. You should also be a self-starter in your relationships. This means, don\u2019t wait for your partner to have to ask if you can hold the baby so she can take 30 minutes for herself. She shouldn\u2019t have to ask. It shouldn\u2019t even have reached that point. Again, do what you can because you CARE. And don\u2019t approach it with a mindset of what you should be getting in return. A transactional approach to things may hurt intimacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, make sure that the reverse doesn\u2019t happen. You shouldn\u2019t be the only one dealing with everything, nor should you be the one who is always \u201cgiving.\u201d Have the awareness to know whether your relationship is still healthy. If it isn\u2019t, call it out and calmly discuss it. Find a compromise. Because letting problems like that fester is what builds up resentment<\/a> and leads to divorce or separation<\/a>. Make sure that you frame everything as an \u201cit\u2019s you and me against the problem.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Be Present in Appointments <\/p>\n\n\n\n You don\u2019t have to be there all the time if there\u2019s a scheduling conflict or both of you have agreed that she would prefer to go herself. But it would still be nice to offer to accompany the women around you to their appointments or errands. For example, if your mother is going grocery shopping, go with her so you can help carry the items back home. If your partner is going for a check-up, be there for her so she can feel reassured by your presence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Speaking of consultations, studies have found that women tend to experience medical invalidation<\/a> when seeking help for their pain. Being there to call out the doctor and help your partner advocate for herself so that she can get the treatment she needs goes a long way. And yes, in some cases, men are still taken more seriously compared to women. Also, when you accompany a woman, she is safer because she is less likely to be assaulted by another person. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Call Out Misogyny <\/p>\n\n\n\n Previously, we mentioned medical invalidation. Another thing you can do is to speak out against any kind of misogyny<\/a> or discrimination<\/a> that you witness against women. Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean putting yourself in danger. But if you can stand up so that a woman can get the fair treatment that she deserves, that\u2019s already a lot of help. Not only do you help a woman, but you also contribute collectively as you may influence others\u2019 attitudes. You can also participate in social media campaigns<\/a> to help raise awareness of the issues that still burden women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Do What Turns Her On <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lastly, if you have a romantic or intimate relationship with a woman, make sure that you\u2019re also paying attention to her pleasure. It\u2019s a common complaint of women that some guys tend to engage in sexual intercourse without any kind of foreplay<\/a> (not everyone likes this, so it\u2019s important to communicate). Another sexual pain point is how men tend to stop sex the moment they have climaxed. These are very inconsiderate things to do to your partner. Sex should be amazing for both of you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re not sure how to satisfy her, you can ask her about what she wants in bed. You may also read the book \u201cShe Comes First<\/a>\u201d by Ian Kerner. Now, if the issue is something like sexual dysfunction, work with your partner to find ways for sex to be pleasurable for both of you, then seek professional help<\/a><\/strong>. You aren\u2019t only doing it for her. When you have erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, it’s often a symptom of underlying conditions that can worsen over time.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Final Thoughts <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re looking for inspiration on how to be there for the women you love, the steps outlined here will be a good start. However, always remember that you know them better than anyone else. So, use that wisdom to be able to cherish them in ways no one else will. May you share a beautiful bond that lasts a lifetime with all your female loved ones! <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" As we show appreciation towards women this March, you may be wondering what else you can do besides taking them out on a date or buying them a gift or flowers. Supporting a woman is more than just surprising her during International Women\u2019s Day. 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