Women are our equal partners. As much as we need their support, we also need to support them and their needs. This includes making sure that they are satisfied and respected in the bedroom. What are women’s needs in the bedroom and what can we do to satisfy them while being respectful during intimate moments?
Communicate
What pleases a woman differs, so talk to your partner about what she wants in bed. Listen to her likes and dislikes so you can adapt. Men sometimes think that they are doing a great job in bed only to find out that their partner feels unsatisfied. Remember that mutual satisfaction is more important than ego.
Keep in mind that sexual desires evolve. Be open to exploring new sexual experiences. If she wants to try using sexual paraphernalia or sex toys, give it a go. This can be helpful for men suffering from erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation as these gadgets can help you satisfy your partner despite sexual dysfunctions.
Connect emotionally
Aside from the physical aspects, what attracts a woman to a man sexually is emotional connection. Building trust inside and outside the bedroom promotes emotional connection and makes sexual intercourse more meaningful. Don’t be afraid to show your partner how much you love and appreciate her. Show and tell her how thankful you are for everything that she does.
Foreplay is important
Unlike men, women need more time to get aroused and reach orgasm. This places emphasis on the importance of foreplay. Kissing and touching can help build sexual tension and arouse your partner. Take note of her erogenous zones and concentrate on them during foreplay.
Talking and teasing are also types of foreplay. However, if you want to try some “dirty talk” as part of foreplay, be mindful of her limits because it’s easy to blur the line between sexy and distasteful talk.
Obtain consent
Learn how to take the lead in the bedroom but always obtain clear and enthusiastic consent. Men sometimes want to try something new in the bedroom and automatically assume that their partner is always up to it. This is not always the case. Be respectful of her limits. Remember that no means no. If your partner shows some hesitation, it is not a go-signal to push your luck. Take a pause and talk things over with your partner. Take note of verbal and non-verbal cues. If you feel her feeling stiff or act tentatively, she may not be completely on board with what you want. Never pressure your partner into doing something she doesn’t want.
Focus on her needs
Women’s needs in the bedroom are as important as ours. Striking a sensitive balance can help ensure that you and your partner are satisfied in bed. What is pleasurable can differ for every woman so learn what gives her pleasure. Do not assume that what works for a previous partner will work for your current partner. Explore her body and take note of your actions that she finds pleasurable. If she seems partial to a particular sexual position, learn to adjust to help bring her to an orgasm.
Exercise aftercare
Sex does not end with orgasm. Cuddling or talking after doing the deed helps enhance intimacy. Bring her a drink or prepare a relaxing bath for her after sex. Make sure that she feels valued and not just another sexual conquest for you. Some women want to be held while others want some space after sex. Respect her preference but be ready to be there if needed.
Be open to feedback
Confidence is sexy but be careful not to overdo it, especially in bed. Remember that confidence can easily turn into arrogance. Be open to feedback both during and after sexual intercourse. If your partner gives you guidance, be receptive. Treat feedback as areas for improvement instead of criticisms.
If you are suffering from premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, don’t be offended if your partner suggests alternatives to make sex more pleasurable. Trying something new based on her feedback might help keep the flame alive while you’re undergoing treatment for your ED or PE. Keep in mind that your partner also has needs that you need to provide.
Conclusion
What are women’s wants and needs? Love, support, and respect. And when we say respect, we also mean respect in the bedroom. Be respectful by listening to her needs. Respect her boundaries by getting consent. Show her that you respect her by ensuring that she receives the pleasure that she deserves. Establish an emotional connection to show that you completely value her and you’re not just after sex. Consider her feedback to improve your performance and ensure that you both get satisfaction in bed. This International Women’s Month, show your partner that you love, support, and respect her as an equal and valuable partner in life.
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